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Heh, Bald R&J....this is a fantasy site. Nobody is advocating actually doing this, or giving directions on how to do it. In this day of "CSJ" technology, anybody who attempts this is not just evil, but an idiot! (I read of cases where rapists are convicted 20 years after the crime on DNA evidence that was preserved!)

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You got us wrong. We are not protesting against the use of rape in stories (though we dislike that theme, but that's not what our post was all about). What we wanted to point out is that nobody can "want to be raped", because the definition of "rape" is that it happens against one's will, and how can that be the case if someone wants it? As impossible as square circles. People who say they want to be "raped" delude themselves; what they really want is rough sex. One can't want to be raped due to the mere definition of the word "rape". The word "rape" should be used in its correct connotation only. It is a linguistic matter.

Here a dictionary defintion:
Main Entry: rape
Function: noun
: unlawful sexual activity and usually sexual intercourse carried out forcibly or under threat of injury against the will usually of a female or with a person who is beneath a certain age or incapable of valid consent because of mental illness, mental deficiency, intoxication, unconsciousness, or deception.

As soon as the person the "rape" is being inflicted on "wants" it the definition does no longer apply.