Favorite aspect of BDSM

[Dangermouse]

I would have to say my favorite aspect is bondage combined with teasing and denial. (M/f, or F/f) There is nothing quite so erotic as being brought to the very edge of climax only to have it stopped and then begin the process anew, over and over. The longer you last the better the rewards are!

[alura]

I was reading this thread again today and you know, I have to renige on my answer because I really agree with you. The ultimate turn-on is being Dommed, plain and simple.
Kneeling at their feet and knowing that the next moment, a heartbeat away, might hold anything....and everything.

Darn its so hard to choose just one but I think for me overall it is being Dominated however domination in my relationship means bondage,humiliation and yes sometimes pain.So I guess Domination has to be my choice.

[salpecam]

It has to be obedience. For me, the knowledge that she will do as she is told is a lot of the enjoyment. When the moment comes, she will obey, regardless of:
1. Where we are.
2. Who can see us.
3. What I will do.
4. Whether it will hurt.

[Bald_J_and_F]

For us it is a combination of all of these aspects (bondage, discipline, domination/obedience and humiliation), whereby pain, as we explained in another post, should be used only as punishment, in combination with sexual stimulation or as unavoidable by-product of certain kinds of humiliation, but not just for pain's sake alone.
Yours
Jean and Friede

[Master_chris]

For us it is a combination of all of these aspects (bondage, discipline, domination/obedience and humiliation), whereby pain, as we explained in another post, should be used only as punishment, in combination with sexual stimulation or as unavoidable by-product of certain kinds of humiliation, but not just for pain's sake alone.
Yours
Jean and Friede

Interesting, I know from there you two are comming from, as my last slave was the same, she enjoyed pleasuring me, and where I used pain as a means of punishment and sexual stimulation.

but on a personel note. I have never incounted slaves with no hair at tall.. which I found very erotica.

[Bald_J_and_F]

but on a personel note. I have never incounted slaves with no hair at tall.. which I found very erotica.

Late Mistress was of the opinion slaves should not have any hair whatever, not even eyelashes, to display their status. We had one year of probation during which we had to shave head to toe daily and pluck the eyelashes once a week; after that we could decide to have it made permanent or be dismissed. And we decided to stay with Her. In fact the decision was not that difficult, because after this year we had grown used to the look; had She asked us to have it made permanent immediately we probably would have been very reluctant, to say the least. It was a very wise approach of her towards the matter.

[Kaori-san]

I was reading this thread again today and you know, I have to renige on my answer because I really agree with you. The ultimate turn-on is being Dommed, plain and simple.
Kneeling at their feet and knowing that the next moment, a heartbeat away, might hold anything....and everything.

My thoughts exactly, just being ordered to do whatever a Dom says, being their good, little pet. Thats the best for me over all others.

[jadeslave]

there's nothing more fulfulling than knowing i have pleased my Master - obedience MUST come first, if you don't have that, you have nothing.

[BaasGeert]

I'll have to say humiliation by far for me.
Dominance/obedience comes in second, bondage as a third, but that's just a way to achieve the first two..:-)

[slave48]

I love it all but I had to vote for 'other'. For me, teasing and denial is the cruellest and the sweetest torture to endure.