Quote Originally Posted by Bald_J_and_F
"Rape fantasies" are like "square circles": By definition impossible. The main point of "rape" is the non-consensuality of it, but as soon as someone dreams of being taken by force it no longer is non-consensual, since it is wanted by the "raped" person, and hence it no longer is rape. What's more, using the word "rape" in this context is a mockery of women who really have been raped. Pfui!
The correct term for what these people dream of is "violent sex", but that has nothing whatever to do with rape.
J and F I never thought about it that way.. interesting idea. You should start a thread along that line. See whether other people think/agree with that.
I do now as after reading it you are right. If you want to be raped it is therefore consensual and can no longer be rape in reality; as rape is only rape if it has to be forced and performed on the unwilling....