The domming would be done on-line, not in person, so that changes some things for me. 2 of my subs were on-line. They were together, so punishing one was done by the other. When either of them ticked me off, I had the other one administer the punishment, which was almost as bad for her as receiving the punishment was for the other.

I still have a bit of a mental block about punishing someone when you're not there with them, but I am slowly dreaming up new ways to do this. I mean really, how do you cuff yourself, tie yourself up, spank yourself?

Any ideas are gratefully accepted ... I would like to add to my experience by domming a male - oh, hell, lets just cut to the chase - I think domming a male could be a hell of a lot of fun! I'm just not sure where to start. I know, I know, same place I'd start with any sub.

Amanda