You'd be surprised how many abused people end up here. I think it's because when you suffer from sexual abuse, especially as a child, you become somehow 'disconnected' from your sexuality.

The act of submission --- or dominating --- reconnects you again.

Before I found this lifestyle, I never fit. I just didn't.

Now I do.

To me, worrying about how you got here isn't important.

What is important is just EMBRACING it.....and learning to love yourself in the process.

You are who you are. It's as simple as that.