I mean, we do some scary stuff, especially with breath control, that COULD end badly if we weren't careful. But, we're fairly comfortable with what we do, so it doesn't SEEM on the edge. It's part of our "in a rut" problem.

In fantasy, we both have snuff stories that turn us on. For DH it's roasted on a spit, killed or eaten by a snake, drowned in piss, being impaled from asshole to mouth, etc.

For me it would be to be strangled, suffocated, or stretched on a rack.

We do let our play mimic these turn-ons. Where it can get confusing is if I inflict my turn-ons on him and they aren't his turn-ons.

I spent part of this morning immobile in a rubber sleep sack, ballgagged, double hooded, then plastic-bagged and had a great time. Tonight DH is sub and we'll see where the fun takes us.

'night.

EAB