I've had people who knew me through business find it very hard to believe I could be sexually submissive, as I'm so dominant in business.

I can easily separate the two.

If I'm submissive in my business life, people would walk all over me and I'd not have gotten ahead and prospered. It wasn't easy but years ago I had to learn to stand up, stop blending into the shadows, and take charge.

Sexually, however, I'm a lousy dominant. I tried it ("lick my pussy slave -- please?") and was not good at it.

Size does not make one dominant. A close friend, who is six feet tall, has a Top who is 5'2".

Just because you're a bully does not mean you're dominant, it just means you're a dickhead.