i think the best thing to do is ask, if thats possible and with superb timing (good luck!). i think dutig and little one is right about not being able to pick someone out that easily. most of us (at least i would like to think) have perfectly normal families, friends, jobs, childhood, etc that seems just like anybody else.

i never really had someone pick me out. i'll prolly don't know what to do if someone did and confronted me about it. How did some of you guys reacted?