i think that domination over anything requires a pre-requisite of respect. that which has a controlling position over anything has earned respect and has been given that control.
history show us that those that take control without respect and support don't really have it. what's the line? .. absolute power corrupts absolutely.
what this man did was not respectful. it was simply that he decided that he was entitled. that is not respect for a fellow human. and that, unfortunately, is what sustains stereotypes.