I am talking about "Domination" as by its true definition... Without the added rules BDSM gives to it to avoid abuse... Hence you can still dominate and be abusive, just couldnt really call yourself a DOM as most of us would think of it.

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Domination
om·i·nate ( P ) Pronunciation Key (dm-nt)
v. dom·i·nat·ed, dom·i·nat·ing, dom·i·nates
v. tr.
To control, govern, or rule by superior authority or power: Successful leaders dominate events rather than react to them.
To exert a supreme, guiding influence on or over: Ambition dominated their lives.
To enjoy a commanding, controlling position in: a drug company that dominates the tranquilizer market.
To overlook from a height: a view from the cliffside chalet that dominates the valley.

v. intr.
To have or exert strong authority or mastery.
To be situated in or occupy a position that is more elevated or decidedly superior to others.

In truth, this big hairy freak is MUCH more dominate then I am or ever will be... He also seems to have some ANGER issues... But I am DEFINATELY ok with bolth of thoose.