I am also concerned by this mans actions. He sounds more abusive then loving. This isnt conservative, this is controlling. and his lack of respect to let you get off isnt a very good medium. If it was me, I would have never agreed not to masterbate... in addition, I would probably be upset at his online encounters. If he can get off with them, where does it leave u?

He might be cheating with one of thoose girls online... once a cheater, always a cheater...