I can only say that I am jelous of the love you two seem to share. I wish I could find something like that...
Now, I dont beleive "dominance" means that you should be able to react without control but that you should always remain in control. Its not an excuse to run around beating your chest and pee'ing on fire hydrants.
But
With that said... who really cares if you lossed your temper... just that you had fun doing it, and didnt hurt anyone...
so kick ass story...
Kostly