Since this thread is still lying here, I will respond.

I took a look at the site, albeit briefly, and it wasn't anything I am interested in.


I prefer role play that has some etching of reality to it. If my sub is feeling hot while experience fear or anxiety, it is because there is the very real chance that his fears will be realized. I can strike him, I can use his bottom at will, or whatever I chose from my buffet of activities. If I strap him to an electric chair, I cannot realize the greatest fear, that of flipping a switch and frying him. (NOT that I would dream of doing so................)