Quote Originally Posted by sandys girl
My question is for subs who are hiding this part of their life from others. How do you deal with marks, scars, damage that has been done when you visit the dr? I'm thinking especially of marks on the breast. It's this confrontation that is keeping me from getting my nipples pierced. Well that and the fact that it would freak out my husband. But he'd get over it I'm sure.
First off what ever your doctor sees hears or finds out in a consultation is to be held in strict confidence, even if he does not agree with it. It could destroy his career and professional reputation to even discuss it with someone else.
The only way a doctor can reveal details concerning a consultation is if he suspects you have been the victim of a crime. If you make it clear that whatever is on your body is the result of consensual activity he has no right to talk about it. even if he does not agree with it.

That being said, most doctors have seen more than you can imagine. A pierced nipple would not be a ground breaking discovery.