Quote Originally Posted by sandys girl
My question is for subs who are hiding this part of their life from others. How do you deal with marks, scars, damage that has been done when you visit the dr? I'm thinking especially of marks on the breast. It's this confrontation that is keeping me from getting my nipples pierced. Well that and the fact that it would freak out my husband. But he'd get over it I'm sure.
I would recommend finding a kink-friendly physician. Many advertise in local alternative lifestyle publications.

I would also recommend talking to your husband about your intentions to decorate yourself. One should never assume that their partner will just get over something. Besides, communication and trust are the two biggest key ingredients to your relationship. Why damage both at the same time?