I feel kinda whimpy asking about this, but..... I've never been afraid to look stupid. I know I do not want to let my family in on this side of me. In my job it would be completely unacceptable. I live in a small community so it would be hard to keep information quiet.

My question is for subs who are hiding this part of their life from others. How do you deal with marks, scars, damage that has been done when you visit the dr? I'm thinking especially of marks on the breast. It's this confrontation that is keeping me from getting my nipples pierced. Well that and the fact that it would freak out my husband. But he'd get over it I'm sure.