Right way to go about certain things.

[Guest 91108]

I agree there is no right or wrong way.
Communication is key regardless of what level of relationship D/s there is.

[jeanne]

I really like this thread - it's so hard when you start thinking about doing things the "right" or "wrong" way - what everyone else says is completely true - the right way for you both is the way that works for you both! My husband and I are moving very slowly in this and figuring out what works for us as we go along. I have promised him that if we do something that I don't like/enjoy/feel is necessary, that I'll tell him, either immediately or the next day. (Immediately if I'm really, really hating it - the next day if I don't like it but can bear it for him.) This slow pace is giving us both the opportunity to get more comfortable with the D/s dynamic in our relationship and talk things through as they come up. Trust yourself and trust her - you'll figure it out! As our good friend tessa says - "It's not perfect, but it's perfect for us". I completely agree.