I have a live in submissive who is also my fiancee. I was wondering if I wanted certain things done by my submissive ie: sex, should I ask for it or should she be ready at all times.

As far as anything else that I could possibly want done around the house or that I need something should she be asking me often if theres anything she could do for me or should I tell her what I need more often than not.

As of right now we do a little bit of both. I was just wondering if it should be one way or another.

Thank you,
David