hello:
there are lots and lots of chat rooms on IRC in the rooms area, i only know how to get thre from one website at www.forbiddenpalace.net the Great Hall, after entering the chat room, click on rooms and it will list sometimes almost 1000 rooms to choose from with so many themes.
there are also several excellent lifestyle oriented, very genuine rooms i am aware of. all have rules and ettiqutte protocals posted on the websites. the are:
www.thesuburbs.com
www.thedsgarden.com
http://aisle.flashsmart.net
also the forbiddenpalace is very similar, with protocals and ettiquette to follow.
A/all of the M/members of these rooms are very kind and wonderful people, although it is safe to say also very committed to not having "trolls, and individuals being disruptive" so i suggest seriously reading the protocals. being a member of one of these sites myself, i can only speak for myself, i love meeting new people, and wish for A/all to have an enjoyable, and pleasant time.
hope these few suggestions (there are many more i do not have first hand knowledge of) help!
although a chatroom here could prove interesting as well.. giggles
hope to hear other views on this. thanks
veru skjava