just one point...... your on a BDSM site asking us whats normal :-D normal is kinda like beauty, its in the eye of the beholder.

As far as the fantasy, ive talked to or read posts from way more than one guy that likes some version of your fantasy.
As far as i'm concerned, so long as you aren't hurting someone else (consensual whipping doesnt count lol) ... then its fair game.

Teni