Quote Originally Posted by Sir Lanceloth
Hi

a question popped up in my mind when i had a talk with my gf: how best to introduce submission in a non scaring way. Now many topics here is about the first experience, but how would you actually have prefered the first experience to have been? And how does one best introduce such things as dominant/submissive?
This is a personal story, not a preference, but the way I first found out that I might be interested in bondage and similar things ........... my boyfriend at the time and I were fooling around a bit, and I got pinned quite by accident under one of his legs. It was just one leg of his pinning one of mine down, but I couldn't move and I went ....... WOW!!

So you never know what little thing might trigger something in your head.

cg