how would you prefer your first introduction to submission

[Sir Lanceloth]

Sir Lanceloth's thread hits home.

thank you

I've been with my wife since high school prom, 40 years ago. Looking for something new, I asked her Saturday, about BDSM, and she was interested. Our roles ... will be mixed, I think after all we've gone through, it's got to be the only way.

I think thats a good way to start, things may change when you have tried it a few times though.

But to get started...what the first experience should be...that's hard to gage. Bondage, maybe, but it's got to be special. Comfortable, like silk restraints, but with an edge of excitement.

I started by holding my gf hands above her head with my own hands. The "real" bondage we tried after that I used different clothing items to tie her down. We still havent tried using the "real stuff".

And a switch. Anyone know if that's feasible?
Switch in one night won't work, I think. But we could each get into a role with enough preparation. We've certainly had a lot of practice.It seems to me this scene is too interesting to see it from one side only.

But in the forum, everyone seems dedicated to one role only.

yes it is. My gf have tried taking the dom side, and it worked fine. Actually it seemed she had more courage than me, and really went far. She is a little brave one, and i just love her more for it There are other switch folk on this forum, perhaps one of those could post a reply here for you?