Sir Lanceloth's thread hits home. I've been with my wife since high school prom, 40 years ago. Looking for something new, I asked her Saturday, about BDSM, and she was interested. Our roles ... will be mixed, I think after all we've gone through, it's got to be the only way.

But to get started...what the first experience should be...that's hard to gage. Bondage, maybe, but it's got to be special. Comfortable, like silk restraints, but with an edge of excitement.

And a switch. Anyone know if that's feasible?
Switch in one night won't work, I think. But we could each get into a role with enough preparation. We've certainly had a lot of practice.

It seems to me this scene is too interesting to see it from one side only.

But in the forum, everyone seems dedicated to one role only.