Widget: You have given a very explicit explanation and its hard to add onto it...all i was giving was my thoughts and discoveries dealing with it.....i used to just get soap for lubricating the stool coming out.....the feelings of the exit were overwhelming to me and have played anal since then but not much....it did turn me on and i do think of it with mt partner and have done it with her as well. i've tried to make her fel as comfortable as i am with performing it on her as i am with doing it!! does trhis get closer?