thanks for answering. It seems like i am doing the right thing then, im being patient. The only thing i try to force her to atm is to talk with me about it

currently i can tie her completely up and blindfold her, and make her kneel or lay in other positions. But she doesnt like the word master as it reminds her too much of the crap she has seen on tv (intense torture etc). So all in all i count myself wery lucky to have her. Sometimes it seems like im the most nervous one, i allways rethink a scene many times before i even dare suggest it to her

thanks again for replying, it allways help seing other ideas and viewpoints.