Quote Originally Posted by Dngnkeeper
Rhonda this puzzles me. In the thirty years I have been involved with BDSM the people you discribe make up a small minority of the thousands I have met in the lifestyle.
I don't have your experience Dngnkeeper but as someone who stumbled into BDSM and was ripe for being found a fool, I have to say I have never stumbled over what Rhondalee goes onto describe 'But all the BDSM people that I met are all trashy, whackhead, some are abusive, none of them have decent personality.' On the whole I would say I have found the BDSM community as a cross section more positive than the a cross section of the population as a whole. Of course you come across characters you don't like but it's impossible to like everybody.