Hi Mircrowave,
Yeah, i understand the distinction you're making and i agree. There is a difference between actual r/t play (doing things that a Dom instructs you to do etc) and what i would class as roleplaying (typing or describing a scene in a story like sense). In the past, myself and WW have found ourselves kinda..merging the two...we can slip into an RP quite easily but then start to weave in some stuff in reality.
Anyway, as for your question, i understand that pure role play is carried out in most BDSM chat rooms, and, as Ruby says, on these forums in Lord Mobius's Dungeon (the people in their are the true Masters of RP!).
Have fun!
sl