I do not have anything that can be concidered fet wear either. There is also a bacic black dress code that will be enforced during fetish ball. Though other than that there is not much else. From talking with the organizer this is also designed as a information type con for the "normal" people to see that alternative lifestyles are just normal people but with kinks.

And if you really wanted to go you could just ask your friends to drop you off and then pick you up at a later time, but that is just what I would do.