Quote Originally Posted by ProjectEuropa
I assume cbt is a more precise and involved science than I understand or the men who enjoy it have a far far higher pain threshold than I have. Some of the photos I've seen of cbt have made me wince.

I'm genuinely interested in being enlightened!
***** HHHmmm this is something thats easier to show you how than explain in words. But I'll give it a try. ****

CBT is much more then just the infliction of pain. It can take on many flavors. It includes many types of stimulation of the penis and scrotum, not all of them utterly painfull.

The first thing I have to ask myself when doing CBT is what is the intent. Am I trying to stimulate an erection or sexual desire, prevent an erection or sexual activity while increasing desire, or inflicting pain and discomfort. This will tell me the general direction and techniques that I want to use.

On the lighter side is the use of cock rings and ball stretchers. These do a couple of things. They stimulate the nerve endings in the area. This can be be pleasurable, at least in the short term. Think hours. Some of the effects are increased blood flow to the penis, and possible restriction of outflow. This can cause increased sensitivity in the penis and scrotum which can be put to use in sensation play. One of the major effects is mental in that they will be focused on the sensations and the change of shape in the anatamy. This generaly brings on mental desires for sex and a focus on your partner. Imagine that. This effect is similar to the use of vaginal dildos and clit stimulation in women.

Moving up the pain ladder comes things such ball weights penis rings etc. . These are used to cause some discomfort and minor pain. They are designed to prevent the erection of the penis or cause discomfort if it does. As well as over stimulating the scrotum and applying presure to the testies. This type of play is not designed to bring you screaming to you knees but make them week and wobbly. These are much more short term in their use. While their use achieves many of the same effects as above there is an implied level of submission and trust. Think nipple labia or clit clamps, maybe with weights in women.

Up the road at S&M world are the true techniques of pain. These include penis and ball crushers and clamps, needle play, saline injections, psdo castration and nailing the scrotum to something. Again these achieve the goals of all of the above the are designed to cause pure unadultrated pain. Esqusit agony as they say. These are for the few who practice S&M. In women this would be equivlent to similar things done to brests, clit and labia.

Another area is the use of cock cages and chastity belts etc. This type of play is not by defination painfull but enters into the area of mental play. The control of anothers sexuality, or the surender of it, is a powerfull area of D/S.

Another area is the manual manipulation of the penis and scrotum. This can run the gambit from teasing, to tickeling, to erotically stimulating, to on the floor painfull. Again you have to keep your goal in mind and pay very close attention as there is a very fine line between pleasure and pain here. Oral manipulation works similar to this.

There is also the area of vacume manuplication where the goal is stretching. This can induce some unique sensations due to the stretching and leaves the penis, especially, ultra sensative. This can be quite erotic and is a bit of a mind game for a male as someone else is able to control the erection.

Then there is also the area of sounds and cathators. Where the aim is to provide stimulation to the urithra and possibly control the ability to urinate or ejaculate. Beyond the physical sensation it is a heady mind game.

So thats a short list of devious and delightfull things you can do with the male sex organs. This is just what comes to mind at the moment. Hope I didn't have you wincing too much.

I would love to hear your thoughts and questions.