Reading through some of the stories on this site I find myself yawning at the amount of graphic sex, as some stallion is eagerly but rather passively pumping away at his mare. Some times I perk up amused as I think Hey! This bloke has got three cocks! Or sigh, I pity this poor woman, she really is going to end up with back ache or when her breasts are pummeled or her nipples extended like pieces of elastic, I think, ouch! Still, she instanteously combusts at the feel of an angry oversized penis. Not only are the male writers guilty of this. I wonder how many female writers have dripped juices so easily down the inside of their thighs at thought they are going to be taken rough shod when actually confronted with a malicious erection? Most of the time there is no reasoning for these reactions in the characters. I think you all know what I mean.

So how much graphic sex is too much? For me it is when the graphic sex is not driving the plot or adding to the psychology of the story. Why is the woman so aroused? What are the reasons for him treating the object of his desire in such a sadistic way? Coming three times in a short space of time is not impossible for a male who is particularly aroused (brag brag) but what is arousing him? A man can have an almost instantaneous erection at the sight of a particular woman but in my experience not just any woman. I know what the physical act of sex is, I've experienced it enough (brag brag again). However, I do not know what someone else is feeling or their motivations for indulging in a sexual act. I want to know what the feeling is the woman is experiencing and why it arouses her so much or why her arousal is frightening her so much or even why him coming at her with an angry penis yet again is such a turn off. Why does he find the object of his desire so arousing or is it not her but some other psychological motive he is using her for.

So I ask again. How much graphic sex is too much? My answer is, it depends on the quality of the writing. Most of the best graphic sex I have read is happening in the minds of the characters.

Opinions?