Quote Originally Posted by Marla3773
Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated.

Marla
You don't say how old he is. If he is young it might be lack of experience or embarrassment. I think most young males go through a wham bam thank you mam phase. As long as you are beating the egg and going like a locomotive you are getting the job done. If that is the case maybe its the wrong time to be submissive and just take a handle on the situation yourself.

I was lucky as when I was 17 I had a run in with a 38 year old woman who got to grips with me and said if its a race I'm always going to come first. I missed the pun the first few times around, my lower action being faster than my brain. But I got in line and learnt and thought wow! this is much more fun.

If he's older hmm...