In all honesty I’m not sure how to approach answering this question… initially, I guess, my relationship with PainSister started tentatively, I was at the dying end of a vanilla relationship and had been carrying with me this sense that I was deeply unsatisfied… I had had only one relationship where I guess I would say I only went out with one guy who dominated me, though it was far from a D/s relationship in the truest sense of the word…

Looking back I can probably tie a lot of how I am to certain events in my past… things that are known and fully understood by Pain… its these things, I guess, that are the fundamental reason to why I fit so comfortably, and I would say naturally as a switch, although its something I have only come to realise over time as Pain has helped me embrace this lifestyle that seems to fit perfectly.

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