I like the subtle stuff many of you mentioned- the silk scarves, the whispering, etc...

I love breath play- and Master's only done a little with me- He usually does choke me, to the point where I cannot breathe until He lets go- I'm wet on the spot (Master's my witness lol)...

Getting slapped in the face...

Nipples pinched till I can't stand it- that's a direct link to my clit.

But mainly, it's just the concept of domination, of Master's owning me, and doing whatever He wants (no safewords, but trust in Him that i have).

I never thought/ knew I would like to be choked the way He does. I never enjoyed being bitten before. I never thought I would enjoy knifeplay. I never even thought of the concept of having Him put a gun in my mouth- this one has not yet been done, but He talked about it. Look: http://www.bdsmlibrary.com/forums/sh...ad.php?t=10104

But, from Him, I love it all.

But fear is a big turn-on too. And it's a fine line, because I know He would never truly harm me... but still He does a good job making me flinch and fear and never know what the hell He's going to do!