Quote Originally Posted by Poor Victim
Thanx for the advice guys. It has really helped me to get over my guilt. But just asking, what causes people to have these kind of fantasies?
ooof, we could start a whole new forum dedicated to that question. *smiles* Who knows why we have the fantasies we do? Genetics? Hormones? Programmed to be that way? Or, on the flip side...childhood, something we saw or experienced, perhaps that we have no recollection of?, male and female influences in our lives? The media and a constant stream of images and ideas pumped into our subconscious? Ever changing gender roles? Ever changing expectations on us?

Or...a combination of all of the above..otherwise known as being human. i strongly second what everyone else has said...give yourself a break and enjoy being who you want, completely guilt free...the joy of being human is that the mind tells us exactly what it's turned on by, editing out anything that doesn't appeal...and we can revel in it, even on our own...it's an amazing feat, make the most of it, i say!

sl