i have been a sub for many years now.
when i was first introduced to the scene i was told that the most important attribute of a sub, after obedience is good manners.
when i see a woman sucking a man with her eyes closed it makes me very cross! what is he supposed to think? that he is ugly, not fit to be seen? this is NOT good manners.
i know that it is largely up to the man to punish her for any indiscretions but that is no excuse for her to behave so slovenly. a woman giving lip-service should keep her eyes open at all times.
also, i think that a sub should always provide that little extra for her Master. for example, if he does not send instructions for her mode of underwear then she should always wear something attractive but humiliating.
most men, espescially black men, like to see a woman in a thong and suspender belt and stockings. i was told by my husband, Mark that when i was dressing for a "session" that i must always take that bit of extra care over my make-up and underwear. even if the man is not a "special2 visitor, he
must be treated to the best i can give.
i hope all the subs out there will take this advice in the spirit in which it is intended.