Quote Originally Posted by petleah
While i have no experience on this issue, i wholeheartedly agree that this situation, should it become a serious issue between a couple, needs to be handled with the "kid gloves on."
However, all issues within a D/s relationship should be handled with the kid gloves on. And even though in most stereotypical (if that word can mean anything in the BDSM world) the Dom/me has His/Her way, the sub should be allowed the last words on this issue, even if it does end up being "yes Sir/Ma'am."
Yes I do have to agree with that, within any BDSM relationship the slave/sub should know that they can talk to there owners about anything. If something that as happened in a pervious session, they want to try something or even if something as happened in there personnal life they should feel they can talk to there Doms. But in my view and what all my subs/slaves in the past know that my decision is final and I do take into account what have been said. At times I make a decision there and then other times I had want away and think over what was said before deciding what to do about it. There have been other times with the sub/slave talking to she felt better and I didn't need to do anything about it.

But in any relationship of this type trust is the most important thing and if your sub/slave don't trust you enough to talk anything over with you then you both ain't getting the fullness out of it.