Why are so many BDSM girls fat and ugly??

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Ok I haven't posted allot on this forum yet but i've just signed up for a week and I've been thinking about this now so here goes my 2 cents, I dont want to offend people its just my opinion.

First of all appearance does count, i'm 20 years old and I work as quite a succesfull model so I know the importance of looks in our society, therefore I could never have sex with a woman wich im unattracted to. I am a perfectionist wich doesnt always works for me. However there are allot of girls that have the attractive looks but still are ugly ass hell, this is because of the inside of the woman, her personality, wich is reflected on her outside in the way she shines/looks/walks/drinks/laughs etc. (dont know the English word for this).

I'm gonna take this into more of a biological level. Appearance is a way for a woman to tell a man her genes are good. That is why we "the Western World" like thin peope and people in South Africa like fat woman (or men works the other way around as well). This is because in africa having fat shows that u can take care of urself and in the Westen countries it shows the opposite. This is a known and scientific fact wich has been studied. Woman also get more of an ) ( shape when they are futile and ready to mate, us men take this up in our unconciousness and find here more attractive at that moment.
And are more likely to have sex or flirt with her at those days. This is also affected by the psycological state of a persons mind. If a person feels not well they tend to reflect that in their clothing and care for their own body, that is why slim people are looked upon as more succesfull people.

I hope that explains why we (generally) like slim people over fat people on a deeper level...

Now why do I think the're allot of girls into bdsm fat?? First of all I think this is quite overstated but its a fact there are a little more fat people into bdsm then into regular sex.
I think the age is to blame, most girls on the net here are way into their fourties, by then woman get a bit fatter because of age, this is normal and happens with all woman. Yes even the "casual sex" type woman.

Here's the real point, I personally am 20 and attractive however I've not engaged into bdsm to this day. I've been interrested and have read websites since i was twelve though. I've done a bit of bondage (like 2 times soft bondage) but its quite a step to take at such a young age, u doubt if ur toughts are normal and stuff so u keep it to the regular sex. When u mature u will be more open to it and it doesnt matter as much anymore if u'r liked by other girls and woman (or men) the way it does on highschool and beyond. Then u want to fullfill what u always wanted, how u wanted to live ur life. But how do u do this, this is something I dont know how to do, how do u tell the girl u love u want to tie her up and dominate her.. and how to get her into it if she's not? Maybe she'll just think u are a weirdo and leave u. By that tiime u probably have a long term relationship u dont want to waste that easily.

I myself have a beautifull girlfriend wich is not into bondage wich I told her I like, I didnt told her I like bdsm cause she freaked out totally just about handcuffs. So im finding a hard time convincing her.

On the net u are sure the person u meet is interrested in bdsm what would he/she do on this boards anyway?? That makes it easier for woman who lost their relationship but want a bdsm 1 to find it online. Its a shame the're only US sites for this though cause iim from the netherlands

So here u got it, u'll find mostly woman on the net who are old enough to liuve up to their fantasies and woman who are seeking a man wich is into domination for sure. This also happens at high age because its kinda scary when ur just 18.


Last point, the're allot of sites featuring very beautifull girls into bondage, these are models but i've read somewhere in a thread they do this just for money is this true?? U think they dont like bdsm? Why dont they just do regular sex sites then?? Can somebody please explain??

I hope I clarified my opinion.. I did not mean to offend any1

Gerben de Oude