Tantra, Shibari, and BDSM

[mastercoyote]

While I have not personally hit the six hour mark, I have made it well beyond three.

Well, all bragging aside, I'll typically cum after 2-4 hours or not at all. The few times I came after 5-6 hours were sometimes a bit uncomfortable. Usually after that much time I'll just save it for later, which makes my balls ache pleasantly all the next day

I know my dorei loves those sessions where the shibari is in a kind of free flow zen space while we're both at that plateau before the final orgasm.

Exactly. It sounds like you've had more experience with blending Shibari/BDSM with Tantra than I have. I've had plenty of experience with both, but mixing them together has been a relatively new and interesting experiment.

Just to clarify... I'm calling BDSM sex more of a flash, because in the way I've done it over the years, it seems more like I'm ripping orgasms from my girl, rather than letting her simmer for a good long time.

Yup. Sometimes a good old fashioned against-the-wall fucking seconds after she's closed the front door is great too!

Of course, you have to know your ropes, and both your bodies well to do it.

I used "philosophy" incorrectly in my previous post. I should have said "discipline" (no pun intended). Like yoga, karate, tai-chi, etc.; Shibari and Tantra takes a bit of practice and study to do it well. Which also applies to BDSM, of course.

What I've become interested in lately is applying physical pain and psychological stressors, to both me and my slave, to induce a highly charged state that lasts for 4-6 hours--something akin to an LSD trip, but using the body's own chemicals.

Any thoughts on that?