Quote Originally Posted by slavelucy
Interesting. i like those phrases, NS, thanks.

Right, on to Pandora's quesion. my general thought on this subject and the one with which i'm gonna start my ramblings on a subject which fascinates me, is that submissives find it harder to come to terms with who they are, but dominants should find it harder. Make any sense? Probably not. LOL.
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Not a problem lucy and your statment about accepting that you are a Dom being more difficult is far to true.

I myself when I was first looking into things asked myself multiple times, "Is this right" I mean with the fact of being domminant you can be seen as removing someones human rights. In our society this is seen as a bad, and when it is done to women, and increadibly big bad.

The one big thing that helped me understand things is the last part of , Safe, Sane, Consensual. The realiziation that all of the activities and the things that go on, should be consensual, and often that they are, and that both sides want this and that wanting these things are not a bad thing to want.