Heya duktig

Don't worry about what people tell you punishments should and shouldn't be (regardless of how many exclamation points they use) Just take what you enjoy out of BDSM and leave the rest, and don't worry what people tell you should and shouldn't happen. "Bring your own salt" sort of deal. I don't understand the 24/7 thing, but people who are lifestyle people obviously get something out of it. And don't sulk, pouting is much cuter