There will always be people who insist on defining terms to be exclusionary, instead of inclusionary. Don't get hung up on the terminology. Remember that there are different strokes for different folks. If you and your husband enjoy it, then do it, and don't worry about what it's called.

Using the same philosophy (DSFDF), don't worry about the people who are 'lifestyle' (24/7). That's their thing, not yours. I don't understand why people eat vegetables. Just the smell of cooking vegetables can make me vomit, and to actually put them in your mouth! Disgusting! But, I accept that other people do this disgusting thing, and realize that whether or not they do it, it doesn't have to affect me. Just think of 24/7 as being a disgusting vegetable. You don't have to understand it, since you have the option to ignore it.