I totally agree that I am young (18 yrs young to be exact).Eb I also think everyone matures at a different pace, now I wouldn't say I have totally matured, but I know what I like and what I don't. I know what pleases me. My Master and I trust each other, which is very important. We have sat down and both filled out the BDSM checklist,so that we can both be on the same page about what each one of us would like to or not like to do(I am sure everyone here is familiar with the list). There are some things that I don't really like, but are willing to do for my Master if he asks for it, and I am allowed to use our safe word at anytime I no longer feel comfortable. My Master and I have tried anal again since my post on October 21st, and I did as I had done the first time we tried it: squirmed away from him as he was trying to get his cock or even his fingers anywhere near my ass, I have a very,very LOW tolerance for pain, but love my Master and desire to please him. Oh, and slavelucy about whether my Master says I am not pleasing him, no, he has't any complaints, but with him being my Master only wants to use every part of my body(mouth,pussy etc).I don't feel like with me so recently losing my virginity I am doing alot very quickly, I was doing only oral sex before I met my Master, I am a very, very sexual sub. You know Mobius, maybe you are right anal may be a hard limit for me, and the last time we did try anal my Master said that he wouldn't mind if we never did it again, He said he doesn't want to do something to me that is going to cause me so much pain, he wants it to be pleasurable for both of us. Everyone's comments,suggestions, and advice have been most helpful, and greatly appreciated. Thanks alot.