I give her a lot of attention otherwise. She's stubborn, but wants to listen, but doesn't... We don't have a limit, as we trust eachother in what we do. But she has this habit of saying things to really wind me up in public, so as being in public, I give her a glare and tell her to behave, then have words with her out of public view. I want to control her to get her to listen to me and do as I say and she wants the same.