Just a quick note to update you on my/our progress.... took your advise and sat down & talked with him. started with the movie & went from there....i told him that the movie really excited me......and that i wasn't really sure why, but i wanted to talk to him about it. he was open to the discussion and asked me on what side was i excited...the giver or receiver....and i told him truthfully i wasn't sure...that sometimes when i masturbate i'm the male giving and sometimes I'm the female receiving......

either way not sure what path this is going to take us down but the discussion did give me a good pounding... so i must have sparked an interest and am glad i mentioned it to him.... i know i seem to be asking alot of questions but any advise or helpful links would be greatly appreciated....

And MOBIUS"Don't take no for an answer. when he is lying in bed trying to read or what ever, why don't you sink down and give him a blow job but do not let him compleat. When you have his attention so to speak take the lead. And take what you want."........

I'm going to start to do just that...watch out baby here i come.....