Maybe you and your potential sub could have a brainstorming session before the fantasy is played out? Just a suggestion.

That's what I've been saying all along.

I'm interested in roleplaying a father/daughter fantasy. The daughter has been disobedient one too many times and the father intends to punish her by treating her like a whore, breaking her virginity, perhaps applying pain in the form of whipping...etc

Any other ideas of what kind of pain I can apply would be appreciated.