Kar:
There's a thread in the General Talk section of the forums called 'New members, please post here!' New members/registrants usually go there to introduce themselves and explain a little bit about what pushes their on button, etc. You might wish to go and introduce yourself there, and maybe other subs, perhaps one who would conform to your expectations, will see your post there. And if you direct attention to this thread, perhaps you might find one who will IM you. However, like I said, a little time might pass between posts or offers, so please be patient.