Fantasy

[jaeangel]

I would still appreciate a little more specificity.

[kar]

What do you need to know? When I revealed my wish I didn't know that it would be so complicated.

[redEva]

What do you need to know? When I revealed my wish I didn't know that it would be so complicated.

No offence, Kar, but;

You are looking for someone to play out a fantasy with you. Your intention is to do it On Line – i.e. using words.

Jeangel gave asked specific questions and gave you the reasoning behind it (what time zone are you, how long session are you expecting?…) and you have not answered any of it.

If you are incapable of expanding on your fantasy, on what you would like to do, how would you like to set up mood, scene, if you can not entice someone to get into that role – to become playful with you, how on earth are you planning on playing it out via Instant Messaging?

I have noticed that you have 7 posts and all of them are in this thread. Not one of them has over 32 words! Take your time, browse the forums, look at older threads and posts of our members. We are warm, welcoming, playful and at the same time serious bunch. I am honestly surprised you got any response, any interest based on your posts. You have no introduction, no profile.

If all you are looking for is someone to play one night IM with you – I would recommend going to mIRC or Yahoo or MSN or ICQ groups and look for Chat rooms that share your interest. You might have better luck there.

Sincerely

red

[jaeangel]

1: Which server would you use?
2: The sub would play the part of the daughter, that I understood, but a disobedient one? A good girl? a schoolgirl? the cheerleader type girl?
3: How long would the IM session be? The sub may need to clear her schedule if it will be an extended one.
4: When is a good time for you?
5: What time zone are you in? Obviously, as I'm on the East Coast of the US, if you're in Australia or somewhere far like that, our times may not be compatible.
6: What sorts of reactions would you be expecting?
7: You're the father, but are you the stern disciplinaran father, or the abusive father, or the incestuous kind of father?
8: Will there be any kind of pain, administering/receiving, involved? if so, by what instruments?
9: Will there be any kind of sexual congress between the character of the daughter and the character of the father?
10: Can you give any detils as to what you might expect to have happen?
11: Would you want to meet the sub in IM and 'see where it goes from there'?
12: Are you looking for someone to make up the fantasy for you and play it out in IM? Or do you have a specific scene in mind?
I am a writer, and as such, have a lively imagination. However, before participating, I'd need to have some more details, as well as answers to the practical considerations above, and time to come up with sufficient detail to keep the conversation going.

[kar]

1. MSN or Yahoo
2. All of the above at some point? I'm not particular
3. Just whenever we can talk to each other. Maybe we could actually be friends too?
4. Pretty much any time
5. Central
6. I don't understand the ?
7. All of the above at some point? I'm not particular.
8. Not sure. I'm not that creative. Input would be great.
9. I don't understand the ?
10. I don't understand the ?
11. Sure
12. We can discuss ideas together

[zig]

Look, I'm going to be harsh. Nobody wants to play with you because you will not explain what you are looking for. If you want to play on IM, you are going to have to use words, exchange information and ideas. As it stands, we have had to poke and poke to get you to reveal the smallest details of your fantasy. It is frustrating, and does not make you seem like a good candidate for an online tryst.

I am getting annoyed at you, and I am very turned off by your fantasy. Imagine, then, how frustrating it would be for someone who is interested but cannot get you to explain further! I can almost garuantee you are not going to find someone to play with if you continue like this.

[mythicat]

"Q. 9: Will there be any kind of sexual congress between the character of the daughter and the character of the father?"

"A. 9. I don't understand the ?"


I'm gunna go out on a limb here and suggest that Kar isn't old enough to BE a father much less play a naughty one...

Age check!


And Kar...for future reference...admitting that you're "not that creative"...isn't a huge selling point...and is unlikely to get you laid either online or off...much less in a place called BDSM Library.

[jaeangel]

1: Which server would you use? Your response: MSN or Yahoo
2: The sub would play the part of the daughter, that I understood, but a disobedient one? A good girl? a schoolgirl? the cheerleader type girl? Your response: All of those at some point.
3: How long would the IM session be? You: Whenever we can talk together
4: When is a good time for you? You:Pretty much anytime.
5: What time zone are you in? You: Central
6: What sorts of reactions would you be expecting? You: DNU (Do not understand)
7: You're the father, but are you the stern disciplinaran father, or the abusive father, or the incestuous kind of father? You: All of the above
8: Will there be any kind of pain, administering/receiving, involved? if so, by what instruments? You: Not sure, not that creative.
9: Will there be any kind of sexual congress between the character of the daughter and the character of the father? You: DNU
10: Can you give any detils as to what you might expect to have happen? You: DNU
11: Would you want to meet the sub in IM and 'see where it goes from there'? You: sure
12: Are you looking for someone to make up the fantasy for you and play it out in IM? Or do you have a specific scene in mind? You: We can discuss ideas together.

Okay.
Thank you for the clear, concise answers to questions 1, 3, and 5. Now, if we can iron out the other questions...
1: From your responses to questions 2 and 7, I gather you might be talking about a series of IM's, not just one. Am I correct?
2: When you say you're available for IM anytime, does this mean you spend the whole day in front of the computer? Is it online all the time? You have no other obligations/responsibilities?
3: In response to the 'reactions' question, # 6, let me elucidate. Do you have any particular events in the scene which would require a reaction from the sub? something other than the 'ow' in response to an impact on the skin of the sub/daughter?
4: In Question 8, you say you're 'not sure', you're 'not that creative', I'll try to be delicate and point out that lack of creativity is not conducive to a long-term series of online IM's with anyone. This also relates to question #10 and 11. I'm not really keen on planning the session; I want to have the person inviting me to IM have a general session all laid out, so I can concentrate on coming up with realistic, believable reactions to the situations posed in the other person's session guidelines. Which is also why I asked for details in Question 10.
5: Sexual congress as used in question 9 means 'are you going to want the daughter and the father to have sex at some point in the IM session?' It is not capitalized, as 'Congress', which indicates the governing body of our country, it means 'contact with or interaction between two parties.' Check the dictionary; I may have misspelled the word, and if I did I'm sorry. I'm not perfect.

What I got from this is that you want a sub to play the part of a daughter in a series of IM roleplay sessions, and you would play the father. You have no clear-cut fantasy, you want to brainstorm ideas between the sub and yourself in order to put together a fantasy and play it out. You see yourself as the director, looking for ideas to write a script, rather than as the director with ideas already in place and simply looking for an 'actress' to help you put a face on that fantasy. Am I correct?
If I am, then I'm not sure I would suit your purpose. When I first read your post, I was under the apparently erroneous impression that you already had a 'script' for the 'actress'. From what you've said so far, and the vague answers you've given, you're looking for someone to put your fantasy script together, not someone to simply play the part. This father/daughter fantasy is not my cup of tea, mostly because of my own bad experiences growing up in an emotionally abusive household. I might consent if all that was required was my participation, but not if I have to come up with a 'script' on my own.

[jaeangel]

Kar:
There's a thread in the General Talk section of the forums called 'New members, please post here!' New members/registrants usually go there to introduce themselves and explain a little bit about what pushes their on button, etc. You might wish to go and introduce yourself there, and maybe other subs, perhaps one who would conform to your expectations, will see your post there. And if you direct attention to this thread, perhaps you might find one who will IM you. However, like I said, a little time might pass between posts or offers, so please be patient.

[kar]

7: You're the father, but are you the stern disciplinaran father, or the abusive father, or the incestuous kind of father?

8: Will there be any kind of pain, administering/receiving, involved? if so, by what instruments?
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7. Probably a mixture of abusive and incestuous (not that way in real life.....This is fantasy)

8. Yeah. Probably with a belt at first. I'm not sure what else. Help with ideas would be great.