Originally posted by emmaadmirer
Thank you sunshine!

My Sir, who I only meet online, sigh, is very soft with me. Although I encourage him from time to time to make me do more severe tasks, he insists on me slowing down. I think, he doesn't want me to get hurt, mentally and phisically.
My question is, when my Sir tells me to slow down, should I be more patient? ( I feel really comfortable with him and trust him because of his being very careful with me)
I love the way he treats me, and I think, I wouldn't trust him that much, if he was more demanding.
Every D/s relationship is different but I think perhaps the cornerstones are the same - respect, trust and (if you're lucky) love.

If you've given your submission to your Dom, it's right that he's the one guiding the relationship, within the bounds of SSC, of course.

Don't be in too much of a rush to get somewhere; the journey's part of the fun and sometimes we focus so much on what's ahead that we fail to appreciate the here and now.

Besides, a bit of patience might save you from a cyber spanking for topping from the bottom

They don't tend to like that, yannow