My first reaction to player's (great name for a nobody) post was pure anger... then I realized, that was probably his goal in the first place.

Then after I read all the beautiful posts from the intelligent, caring, and insightful people we have here on the forums, his opinion meant less and less! I have placed my needs into the hands of very egotistical people just like him all my life until this past year or so! Always trying to measure up to others ideals of what a real woman should look like...

Well I can tell you what a real woman should look like.... herself! I am drop dead gorgeous, curvacious, hot, sexy, spunky, cute, and oh so damn sweet... and it only took me 42 years to learn that! This is how I will forever more look at myself... and I have Canopus to thank, for helping me realize that. (He likens me to a Marilyn Monroe figure, how great is that!!!!)

So to any out there that thinks they need to look like what someone else thinks they should, i am here to tell you..... You are beautiful!!!!!

Master's tehya