Quote Originally Posted by player
How many seriously attractive women with good bodies are into BDSM????? Well the answer is not many. The reason is that the attractive women are capable of enjoying a normal sex life because they get attention from the opposite sex.

Fat and unattractive women do not get attention and as a result have to resort to other "avenues" to get the same attention ie - BDSM.
Uh...excuse me. Because you're fat doesn't mean you're not attractive. A lot of the girls whove responded to this thread look perfectly allright to me. I consider myself fat, but I alsoconsider myself attractive...and if you, or anyone else, want to dispute that, send me an email and I'll send you a pic of me.
When I was pregnant I went from 97lbs before to 151lbs by the time I delivered. I worked the whole nine months, as a cellular sales rep for a local company. I got more propositions from male clients (and female clients) during my last three months than I did before I got pregnant. And now, two years and another child later, my weight's settled to 130 lbs (for a 4' 11 1/2" frame, it's a lot) and I'm still getting propositioned by guys and girls in the supermarket and in the local adult shop (for some reason, they don't see the gold band on my finger.) So kindly keep your uninformed opinions to yourself.
Also, have you thought that someone has to be extremely comfortable with themselves before they can be comfortable with someone else in a D/s relationship? Those fat girls are usually happy with themselves, or they'd be in anorexia clinics trying to make themselves look like Calista Flockhart. Those that are comfortable with themselves are the ones who are the most fun to be around; would you be comfortable if you took your girlfriend out to a restaurant and she did nothing but gripe through the whole meal about how thin (or fat) she is, and would you be happy say, going to Outback Steakhouse and diving into a 20oz steak while she picked at a spinach salad with lo-cal dressing? Or would you prefer to take out a girl who talked about a variety of subjects, could laugh at her own neuroses, and ate a nice balanced meal that didn't make you look like a pig?
Think about that before you go talking to us girls about looking like porkers. And I'll bet you got some cellulite around the belly, too. Maybe the but and thighs too. Remember, 'let he who is without guilt cast the first stone..." If you don't look like Arnold Schwarzenegger and have zero percent body fat, don't talk.